Dear Reader:

I know this article has been a long time coming.  Shamelessly your curiosity was whetted then left mercilessly stranded between exquisite anticipation and unfulfilled frustration.  A necessary inconvenience I assure you.  For now, you have some understanding of what motivates the Responsible Practitioner or RP.

Unlike her irresponsible counterpart, which I discussed in the first article, an RP engages in AFO for the sole purpose of improving the mechanics of intimacy without damage to the male ego.  For truthfully, few things are as delicate as the male sense of self.

Now before my testosterone inclined readers protests too much, consider the following:

You're at a bar tossing back a few with your male friends.  Everyone is having a good time ribbing each other over a stupid play made during Sunday's game.  While in the midst of dissecting an official's apparent loss of sight, your attention is drawn to a female at the end of the bar.  She is without a doubt the most attractive woman you've ever seen in person.  She notices that you've noticed and unabashedly serves up an I-could-eat-you-alive smile.  Before you can act on the invitation, another male arrives and soon departs with the temptress on his arm. 

If in a similar situation you:

 A. Experienced a chest puffing satisfaction that out of all your friends,
 she found you the most worthy of her attentions.

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B. Felt a twinge of disappointment as you realized she preferred   another male.

 Based on nothing more than a look and/or a smile, it should come as no surprise that a female who actually cares for you would engage in AFO.

Honesty in Fakery: AFO to an RP is not deceitful.  In fact, it is the goal of every RP to achieve a mind-blowing experience as a result of your very learned and capable hands (as well as other parts), learned and capable being key. 

Every male reaches a certain point in his sexual prowess where he's confident in his ability to meet the sexual needs of a given female.  Most males take pride in this perceived accomplishment. 

Yet males often overlook the fact that what is exciting to one female is merely pleasant to another.  Males just as frequently fall back on one or two techniques that garnered them the most noteworthy response from a prior lover, and apply it to a new one expecting the same level of response.  It therefore becomes difficult to explain to an enthusiastic lover that his specialty needs more work.

Additionally, no male should misunderstand the need to improve or adjust his technique, with a woman's desire to be intimate with him.  It is her desire to share satisfying physical closeness with a chosen male that necessitates AFO.  After all, a female strives for sensual completion too, and her hungers should never be dismissed as secondary to a male's.

The Right Way To Stroke His Ego:  We all have a need to feel special.  Male or female we all need to stand out, even more so to those we hold dear.  From the clothes we wear to the decor of our homes and the cars we park outside them, we need the accolades of recognition. 

This is particularly important in the areas of sensuality and intimacy.  In short, how healthy or skewed our self-image, in large part, can be gauged by our confidence in the bedroom. 

Which as previously discussed can be a dicey area when dealing with males.

So how does a Responsible Practitioner in the Art of Faking Orgasms navigate such a sensitive mine field.  Easy, by playing to the males need to dominate and achieve.

In the final article, we will take a closer look at "The Right Way To Stroke His Ego", and techniques that can lead to a satisfying physical relationship.

THE ART OF FAKING ORGASMS - PART I OF III